It goes without saying that we must properly instruct members in the fundamental principles that are the basics of Nichiren Buddhism, but it is unwise to make unnecessary comments on or criticize their personal lives. We each have our own personality and lifestyle. Our circumstances also differ. The key is to respect one another and work together harmoniously.
>From The Wisdom for Creating Happiness and Peace, part 3, revised edition, p. 111
Daisaku Ikeda